Your age:
1 = Under 18
2 = 18-20
3 = 21-22
4 = 23-30
5 = Over 30

You define yourself as:
1 = Male
2 = Female

Race/ethnicity:
1 = White
2 = Black
3 = Hispanic
4 = Asian
5 = Other (mixed)
6 = I am uncomfortable answering this question

Sexual orientation
1 = Homosexual
2 = Bisexual
3 = Heterosexual
4 = Transgender
5 = I am uncomfortable answering this question

How far do you plan to continue your education?
1 = Probably won't complete college
2 = Graduate with bachelors degree
3 = Some post-graduate work
4 = Graduate with Masters degree
5 = Graduate with PhD. MD, EdD, or other professional degree

Current dating/marriage status:
1 = casual dating, little emotional attachment
2 = you have dated often, but you are not emotionally attached
3 = you are emotionally attached, but you not in love
4 = you are in love
5 = you are in love and would like to marry, but you never discu
6 = you are in love and have discussed marriage, but you have ma
7 = you are engaged to marry
8 = you are married

Are you living together?
1 = Yes
2 = No

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1 = I am a fairly sensitive person.
2 = I am more sensitive than most other people.

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1 = I have a natural talent for influencing people.
2 = I am not good at influencing people.

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1 = Modesty doesn’t become me.
2 = I am essentially a modest person.

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1 = Superiority is something that you acquire with experience.
2 = Superiority is something you are born with.

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1 = I would do almost anything on a dare.
2 = I tend to be a fairly cautious person.

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1 = I would be willing to describe myself as a strong personalit
2 = I would be reluctant to describe myself as a strong personal

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1 = When people compliment me I sometimes get embarrassed.
2 = I know that I am good because everybody keeps telling me so.

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1 = The thought of ruling the world frightens the hell out of me
2 = If I ruled the world it would be a much better place.

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1 = People just naturally gravitate towards me.
2 = Some people like me.

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1 = I can usually talk my way out of anything.
2 = I try to accept the consequences of my behavior.

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1 = When I play a game I don’t mind losing once in a while.
2 = When I play a game I hate to lose.

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1 = I prefer to blend in with the crowd.
2 = I like to be the center of attention.

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1 = I will be a success.
2 = I’m not too concerned about success.

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1 = I am no better or no worse than most people.
2 = I think I am a special person.

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1 = I am not sure if I would make a good leader.
2 = I see myself as a good leader.

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1 = I am assertive.
2 = I wish I were more assertive.

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1 = I like having authority over other people.
2 = I don’t mind following orders.

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1 = There is a lot that I can learn from other people.
2 = People can learn a great deal from me.

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1 = I find it easy to manipulate people.
2 = I don’t like it when I find myself manipulating people.

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1 = I insist upon getting the respect that is due me.
2 = I usually get the respect that I deserve.

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1 = I don’t particularly like to show off my body.
2 = I like to display my body.

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1 = I can read people like a book.
2 = People are sometimes hard to understand.

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1 = If I feel competent I am willing to take responsibility for
2 = I like to take the responsibility for making decisions.

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1 = I am at my best when the situation is at its worst.
2 = Sometimes I don’t handle difficult situations too well.

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1 = I just want to be reasonably happy.
2 = I want to amount to something in the eyes of the world.

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1 = My body is nothing special.
2 = I like to look at my body.

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1 = Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
2 = I have good taste when it comes to beauty.

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1 = I try not to be a show off.
2 = I am apt to show off if I get the chance.

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1 = I always know what I am doing.
2 = Sometimes I’m not sure of what I am doing.

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1 = I sometimes depend on people to get things done.
2 = I rarely depend on anyone else to get things done.

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1 = I’m always in perfect health.
2 = Sometimes I get sick.

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1 = Sometimes I tell good stories.
2 = Everybody likes to hear my stories.

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1 = I usually dominate any conversation.
2 = At times I am capable of dominating a conversation.

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1 = I expect a great deal from other people.
2 = I like to do things for other people.

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1 = I will never be satisfied until I get all that I deserve.
2 = I take my satisfactions as they come.

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1 = Compliments embarrass me.
2 = I like to be complimented.

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1 = My basic responsibility is to be aware of the needs of other
2 = My basic responsibility is to be aware of my own needs.

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1 = I have a strong will to power.
2 = Power for its own sake doesn’t interest me.

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1 = I don’t very much care about new fads and fashions.
2 = I like to start new fads and fashion.

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1 = I am envious of other people’s good fortune.
2 = I enjoying seeing other people have good fortune.

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1 = I am loved because I am lovable.
2 = I am loved because I give love.

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1 = I like to look at myself in the mirror.
2 = I am not particularly interested in looking at myself in the

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1 = I am not especially witty or clever.
2 = I am witty and clever.

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1 = I really like to be the center of attention.
2 = It makes me uncomfortable to be the center of attention.

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1 = I can live my life in any way I want to.
2 = People can’t always live their lives in terms of what they w

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1 = Being an authority doesn’t mean that much to me.
2 = People always seem to recognize my authority.

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1 = I would prefer to be a leader.
2 = It makes little difference to me whether I am a leader or no

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1 = I am going to be a great person.
2 = I hope I am going to be successful.

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1 = People sometimes believe what I tell them.
2 = I can make anybody believe anything I want them to.

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1 = I am a born leader.
2 = Leadership is a quality that takes a long time to develop.

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1 = I wish someone would someday write my biography.
2 = I don’t like people to pry into my life for any reason.

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1 = I get upset when people don’t notice how I look when I go ou
2 = I don’t mind blending into the crowd when I go out in public

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1 = I am more capable than other people.
2 = There is a lot that I can learn from other people.

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1 = I am much like everybody else.
2 = I am an extraordinary person.

I can become entirely absorbed in thinking about my personal affairs, my health, my cares or my relations to others.
1 = very uncharacteristic or untrue, strongly disagree
2 = uncharacteristic
3 = neutral
4 = characteristic
5 = very characteristic or true, strongly agree
6 = I am uncomfortable answering this question

I'll make him/her pay.
1 = strongly disagree
2 = disagree
3 = neutral
4 = agree
5 = strongly agree

Your partner intended to make you angry.
1 = strongly disagree
2 = disagree
3 = mildly disagree
4 = mildly agree
5 = agree
6 = strongly agree

How confident are you that this was the worst disagreement you ever had as a couple?
1 = not at all confident
2 = a little confident
3 = somewhat confident
4 = very confident
5 = extremely confident

1 = completely disagree
2 = somewhat disagree
3 = neither
4 = somewhat agree
5 = completely agree